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Rabbi Shalom Landau:

If you give out of guilt, don’t call it generosity. It’s emotional leakage. No wonder you feel used, resentful, and drained. Torah already warns: give without a grudging heart. (Deuteronomy 15:10) Because giving from guilt isn't giving, it's pain management!

Trauma is isolation, so you don't really need anything to happen to be traumatized. The first time God said something wasn't good was about being alone.

Small people deal with small problems. A person is sized by the size of his problems. Enhance your problems and you will grow....

Never aspire to be the only one winning. The path to wealth runs through partnerships and relationships. When others benefit from your success you'll benefit from theirs. It's a unstoppable chain reaction!